Why Do So Many Teens Get Involved in Boy-Girl Relationships? (Part 3)

Alright, let's continue to the next reason why 'so many teens get involved in boy-girl relationships'. The next one - They just want to have SEX.

Honestly, there are many teens (older ones too) that get into relationships for this reason. More people than you would like to believe are only interested in having sex with their BF/GF. You may think this only applies to guys, but seriously and surprisingly, more and more girls are getting into relationships for this reason too. But of course it's still much more common for guys.

I think that this is almost the worst, if not the worst reason to get into a relationship. First of all, it's going to work out really bad. For example, let's just say Joe got with Kate just for the sex. What happens when sex becomes boring to him? Well, he would certainly look for another place to quench his lustful desires. Obviously, he's gonna look for someone else.

When that happens, Kate (that got into the relationship for a purer reason) is going to feel used. This could cause countless of problems in her life, Low self-esteem and depression are examples. *Guys get off much better from these relationships, because they won't really feel used*

I've got nothing to say to those people that get into relationships just for the sex. I only have some words to say to those that are looking for a relationship for the other better reasons. Two words, "Be Careful".

Make sure you really know the guy/girl before you move to the 'next step' in your relationship. It is very important that you know his/her motives. Far too many people have been hurt because they 'just wanted to make him/her happy'. Test him/her to make sure that he's/she's for real. If you don't, it might be one of the biggest thing you'll regret.

"One thing I've learned in all these years is not to make love when you don't feel it; there's nothing worse you can do to yourself than that"

- Norman Mailer

take care,

~daN~